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Blackmen dating white woman

Let me start by saying this: I know writing this blog post is going to cause quite a bit of controversy, so let's get this out of the way: I am intelligent, not what society deems "ghetto," and from what I am told, and given where I work in the television business, I am attractive. Black men are viewed as sexy and, in a sense, a 'trophy' for another race, but black women are never deemed the most attractive.

My boyfriend had said lightheartedly, "I hope our son has my hair." My boyfriend has beautiful, soft curls, a genetic gift from both his races.

He said, "Courtney, I see you struggle with your hair, and I think it would be nice if he had my curly hair.

You wouldn't want him to have coarse hair if you could help it. I know I'm an attractive female with a lot to offer.

Even on social media, my heart will sink as I see black women I've known from high school or elementary school now say they're "black and Filipino," "black and Puerto Rican," "black and [whatever race]" -- just don't say you're fully black!

It seems these women have been conditioned to think they're not worthy if they're "just black."Before I met my boyfriend's mother in person, she thought I was white. From the way I spoke on the phone to the way I "act," I have been dubbed the "whitest black girl" everywhere from my hometown to a city close to the Canadian border (Syracuse, I'm going to leave out Beyoncé and Rihanna, because duh.

This is a subject that is interesting to both Black women and White men.

In fact, I have myself been working on a book entitled “Why White Women Love Black Men,” though my publisher has suggested I change the title to “You Stupid Bitch, WTF is Wrong with You?

” This is an Actual Problem This is a problem and is becoming more of one.